Hey Everyone!

Hey guys, sorry I haven't been on lately, I've just been so caught up in the flurry of things, you know? Well anyways, continue to send in your questions, and I'll continue to answer them! Thanks SO much for all of the support!
Sincerely,
It's A Secret

Secret Obsession

 I have a secret - I'm obsessed with something totally out of the scene, without a doubt out of it. Only my BFF knows about it, and yesterday it "slipped out of her mouth" when she was talking to the biggest gossip in the ENTIRE school. Of course, we're still tight, but she stil leaked it. Now I'm trying to deal with middle school mortification AND a possibly betraying BFF. What should I do?

Dear Secret Obsession,
 I've been in this sort of situation before - trust me. The thing is, people are like that. Let your BFF go the first time. If she does it again (or has done it before), then there's something to worry about. As for the secret being leaked, sometimes, you can turn it into a really cool story if you can think of one, or even straight out deny it. But, if you don't want to lie, even the SLIGHTEST bit, you should just be honest, and know that nobody should care what you like, not even you.
Sincerely,
It's A Secret

BFFs (Best Feuding Friends)

 My two best friends in the entire world are totally against each other. They fight over me and get into violent fights that often cause multiple bruises and scrapes, but they say that it's worth it because they think that they're beginning to get rid of each other. That is SO not the case, though. They won't let me share them. I've often come home from school crying because of it. HELP!

Dear BFFs (Best Feuding Friends),
 Try inviting a new friend into your group so that they can work out their problems, meanwhile you can be with that other person. Refuse to spend time with them until they work out their problems. Even though this might get even more violent, It's definitely better than having to watch it. If they really are your best friends, they'll learn how to work it out eventually. If not, tell them that you guys need a break. Then they'll probably stop, because there isn't anything to fight over. Then, slowly try to bring them back, one by one, spending one-on-one time with them and try to figure out why they hate each other that they're willing to seriously injure each other.
Sincerely,
It's A Secret

I'm on Google+

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It's A Secret

Dorky Diva

I love to sing, and I've auditioned for more TV shows than you can imagine, but there IS one catch. I'm a total DORK! A lot of competitions I've entered are based on looks, and I'm a freckle-faced, frizzy brown-haired, wimp-glassed FREAK! HELP!

Dear Dorky Diva,
 I suggest that you show off to the stupid judges that base you on your looks. If it's an all-singing competition, than they shouldn't think twice about your looks! If you insist on changing your look, use hairspray or gel to make your hair less crazy. Get 'cool' glasses like Ray-Bans, like I told Geeked Out-Cast earlier. As far as freckles go, I have tons of them too, and they really aren't that bad. But if you care that much, try concealer. Put it on the areas with freckles (or your whole face) and Voila! If that doesn't work, then I don't know what will.
Sincerely,
It's a Secret

Scared Sixth-Grader

I'm transferring to a new middle school in a month, and I'm worried that nobody is going to like me. Please help me with some 'words of wisdom' about being new and not knowing anybody!!!!

Dear Scared Sixth-Grader,
 Don't worry. Everything will be fine. You just have to find ways to make yourself stand out so that people notice you. If there's a uniform, try finding ways around it to jazz up your appearance. Be nice to everybody, even if they aren't nice to you, and be yourself.
Sincerely,
It's a Secret

Geeked Out-Cast

I'm a total geek, and everybody avoids me. I'm probably the smartest kid in my grade. My glasses are those teeny tiny ones that barely fit, and I wear the dorkiest stuff ever. Even my one friend is starting to avoid me too. Any tips?
Sincerely,
Geeked Out-cast

Dear Geeked Out-cast,
  I understand how miserable you probably are, but unfortunately, everybody is who they are. Try glamming up your style. Get a pair of those cool Ray-Ban glasses that everybody is dying for! I have a pair of the sunglasses, and they are super cool! As far as your wardrobe goes, ask your parents to take you shopping! Shopping is always fun when you're looking for a new look. Try not to be the smartest kid in class for a few days and see if people start treating you differently, as an experiment. Maybe it'll be fun!
Sincerely,
It's a Secret

Frustrated Fashionista

I am all about fashion, but my parents don't approve of my outfits sometimes. ALL THE TIME, even! I like my clothing, I appreciate my parents' opinions, but my clothes are appropriate and cool! I've told them but they won't listen to me! Please help me find a way to get them to accept my choices!! I've resorted to wearing what they want in the morning and changing into my clothes in the bathrooms at school! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
Sincerely,
Frustrated Fashionista

Dear Frustrated Fashionista,
 First of all, you should never lie to your parents about anything. No matter what it is, that is never the answer. Second of all, I would suggest a family meeting. Make them sit down and really listen to you. Maybe the just can't accept the fact that you're growing up. If you're an only child or youngest child, that might be part of the reason why they won't budge. They can't bear seeing their little baby grow up.
Sincerely,
It's a Secret

Welcome!

Hey everybody! I'm here to tell you that everybody makes mistakes, and you have to learn to live with the consequences. You might not like it, but it is something that EVERYBODY deals with. But it you're not sure about what to do, and there's really nobody else to talk to, then you come to me. I will give you the best advice ever at no charge. But you do have to promise me that you'll use my advice. I'll accept any questions, not just about getting in trouble. Tell your friends about me and make me your go-to girl for advice.
Sincerely,
It's a Secret
P.S. Your secrets are safe with me.

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